Introduction
A dream of kissing someone can stir strong emotions: curiosity, embarrassment, hope, confusion, or even spiritual searching. For Christians this kind of dream raises particular interest because kissing carries rich symbolic weight in the Bible. It is important to stress at the outset that Scripture is not a dream dictionary. The Bible does not provide a simple one-to-one key for every dream image. Yet Scripture does offer recurring symbols and theological themes that help believers interpret dreams with humility, care, and a firm grounding in the gospel.
Biblical Symbolism in Scripture
Kissing appears in the Bible in a variety of settings and carries multiple theological associations. In some passages it is a sign of affection and covenantal love between spouses or friends. In others it functions as a ritual greeting that embodies reconciliation and communal peace. At times a kiss can tragically signal betrayal. The range of uses invites careful consideration of context when a kiss appears in a dream.
As a mark of brotherly greeting and peace the New Testament instructs the church to greet one another with a holy kiss.
Salute one another with an holy kiss. The churches of Christ salute you.
Greet all the brethren with an holy kiss.
All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss.
Romantic and nuptial affection is often expressed with the language of kissing, especially in the poetic voice of the Song of Solomon and in New Testament teaching that frames marriage as a picture of Christ and the church.
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Kissing also appears in stories of friendship and covenant commitment, as when David and Jonathan embrace and kiss at their parting.
And as soon as the lad was gone, David arose out of a place toward the south, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded.
A kiss can be a sign of blessing or submission in the presence of God’s anointed.
Psalm 2:12
Finally, the New Testament records a notorious example of a kiss used as the instrument of betrayal, reminding readers that the same gesture can carry very different moral meanings depending on the heart behind it.
Now he that betrayed him gave them a sign, saying, Whomsoever I shall kiss, that same is he: hold him fast.
And while he yet spake, behold a multitude, and he that was called Judas, one of the twelve, went before them, and drew near unto Jesus to kiss him.
Taken together, these texts show kissing as a polyvalent symbol tied to communion, covenant, longing, blessing, and, sometimes, hypocrisy.
Dreams in the Biblical Tradition
The Bible depicts a variety of dreams: some are God’s means of revelation, others reflect human hopes or fears, and many are ambiguous. The biblical tradition recognizes that dreams can communicate truth, but it also warns that not every nocturnal image is a divine message. Discernment, prayer, and testing by Scripture and community are required.
An early example is Joseph, whose dreams played a formative role in God’s providence.
And Joseph dreamed a dream, and he told it his brethren: and they hated him yet the more.
Other biblical interpreters, such as Daniel, consistently evaluate dreams in light of God’s character and the wider witness of Scripture. The church has historically received dreams that align with Scripture and bear good fruit; at the same time it has rejected claims that contradict the gospel.
Possible Biblical Interpretations of the Dream
Below are several theological possibilities for what a dream of kissing someone might signify. These are presented as interpretive options rather than predictions. Discernment should weigh the dream against Scripture, conscience, and pastoral counsel.
1. A Symbol of Covenant Affection or Longing
Kissing often pictures intimate, covenantal love. If the dream involves a spouse, a faithful romantic partner, or an unmistakably holy context, the image may reflect desires for mutual commitment, spiritual intimacy, or the sanctifying presence of Christ in marriage. The Song of Solomon’s erotic-poetic language and Ephesians’ depiction of Christ’s love for the church help shape this reading.
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
2. A Sign of Reconciliation or Peace
Because the early church used the holy kiss as a mark of reconciliation and unity, a dream kiss might represent restoration in relationships or a longing for peace within the body of Christ. Such a dream could prompt prayer for reconciliation and practical steps toward restored fellowship.
Salute one another with an holy kiss. The churches of Christ salute you.
All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss.
3. A Warning about Misplaced Affection or Hypocrisy
The biblical example of Judas shows that an affectionate gesture can mask betrayal. If the dream leaves you uneasy, or if the person kissed is associated with compromise, temptation, or hypocrisy, the image may function as a symbolic caution to test motives and guard against spiritual danger.
Now he that betrayed him gave them a sign, saying, Whomsoever I shall kiss, that same is he: hold him fast.
And while he yet spake, behold a multitude, and he that was called Judas, one of the twelve, went before them, and drew near unto Jesus to kiss him.
4. A Call to Submission or Worship
Some biblical texts use a kiss metaphorically to express homage or submission to God’s Messiah. In this light a dream kiss could point the dreamer toward reverence, worship, or a renewed submission to Christ’s lordship.
Psalm 2:12
5. Ambiguous or Natural Imagery
Not every dream is theological. Dreams often recycle recent experiences, memories, or desires rooted in the body and mind. Minimal secular explanation may acknowledge that physical longing, recent conversations, or anxiety can produce kissing imagery at night. Such natural causes do not require spiritual alarm and should be considered alongside theological readings.
Pastoral Reflection and Discernment
Christians are called to respond to dreams with prayerful humility rather than fear or presumption. Practical steps include:
- Pray for wisdom and clarity, asking the Holy Spirit to illuminate what is consistent with Scripture.
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.
- Test impressions by Scripture and the fruit they produce. Ask whether the interpretation promotes holiness, love, and the gospel.
Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.
- Seek counsel from a mature believer or pastor who can help interpret the dream in the context of your life and faith.
- Consider practical steps if the dream points to relational issues: honest conversation, repentance, reconciliation, or healthy boundaries.
- Avoid occult practices, divination, or attempts to force interpretations outside biblical means of discernment. The Christian life rests on prayer, Scripture, and the sacraments, not on secret dream formulas.
Conclusion
A dream of kissing someone taps into deep biblical symbols: covenant love, longing, peace, submission, and sometimes warning. Scripture does not reduce dreams to a simple code, but it offers categories and stories that help Christians interpret nighttime imagery with humility and theological care. When such a dream arises, respond with prayer, Scripture, and wise counsel. Allow the gospel to shape your interpretation so that whatever the dream’s origin, your response fosters love, holiness, and trust in Christ.